At 28, Nurul Humairah (also known as Mairah) has gone on 7 solo trips. That might not sound like a huge feat, until you hear that she’s in fact, deaf since birth.

While some of us might think twice before embarking on a solo trip, Mairah just won’t allow her deafness to get in the way of her dreams to visit as many countries as possible. From climbing Mt. Rinjani to exploring India solo, this is one Singaporean packed with a good dose of courage and adventure.

Mairah Instagram - Singaporean Deaf Traveller
Photo credit: @mai.rawr 

We had so many questions we eagerly wanted to ask Mairah. How does she travel alone if she can’t hear of dangers? Has she ever felt lost or lonely? Will there be a difference between city escapés or nature retreats if she can’t hear the overwhelming noise of a city? We knew we had to meet up with Mairah and learn more about her solo travel adventures thereafter.

When we finally got to meet, we were all infected by her positive, upbeat, and jovial personality. Her energy filled the room. Her signs and gestures spoke loudly to us, painting lively pictures of her adventures overseas. If “a picture paints a thousand words”, it’s a thousand more for Mairah. Have we mentioned that she’s also a freelance photographer? Double dope! And below is our interview with Mairah (with the help of an interpreter, Zhi Xiong).

1) Hi Mairah! Do tell us more about how you started travelling solo.

@mai.rawr in Chiang Mai 2015 - Singaporean Deaf Traveller
Mairah during her Youth Camp in Chiang Mai, Thailand, 2015. Credit: @mai.rawr

My first solo trip was in 2015, exploring the streets of Bangkok on my own after a youth camp. After that trip, I stumbled upon a website by a young deaf American — Seek the World by Calvin Young.

It was he who inspired me to travel even more.

He spreads deaf awareness through his social media sites, and I thought I could do the same and create more awareness within Asia.

We may be deaf but we can walk, and we can do everything else. We just can’t hear.

2) What are the challenges you faced travelling alone?

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Rishikesh, Uttarakhand, India, 2017. Credit: @mai.rawr

Mis-communication do happen sometimes due to cultural nuances.

In India, I was having a conversation with an Indian local using Google Translate, but his gestures were confusing — was it a “Yes” or a “No”? *laughs*

Other than that, communication is fine as I communicate with others through writing, gesturing, and using Google Translate on my phone with locals who don’t understand English.

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Jaipur, India. Credit: @mai.rawr

I did have a weird encounter once. I was in Jaipur, India when a friendly local Indian volunteered to show me around the Pink City, after knowing I’m deaf. He then brought me to his “shop”, a small storeroom, and told me about the seven chakras. While he might not have any ill intentions, I felt uncomfortable as I was alone with him in a small room. Thankfully I managed to change the subject and left.

I still think about this incident and wondered if I had thought too much then, but it’s always better to be safe than sorry, especially when you’re travelling solo.

3) Your Instagram (@mai.rawr) is pretty dope. How did you pick up photography?

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Agra, Uttar Pradesh, India, 2017. Credit: @mai.rawr

My interest in photography started when a friend introduced a camera to me after my O’Levels. I was just curious and playing around with it, bringing it to events and just snapping away. With those experiences, I became even more interested in photography — especially in street photography — and that’s how it went on from there.

4) Where do you intend to go with your interest in photography?

@mai.rawr Rinjani Guide - Deaf solo traveller
Guide up Rinjani. Credit: @mai.rawr

My dream is to be a full-time travel photographer or photojournalist. I hope through it, I can inspire more Deaf people to travel, and at the same time spread awareness to the hearing community through my travels.

5) Which has been your favourite country so far and why?

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Mairah at Taj Mahal, Agra, India. Credit: @mai.rawr

I’ve been to Thailand, Malaysia, India, Vietnam, and Indonesia. I think the best experience was my trip to India. Before I went on the trip, many people told me negative things about India, but I still decided to go ahead and see for myself.

The Tuk Tuk of India in Agra by @mai.rawr - Singaporean Deaf Traveller
The ‘Tuk Tuk’ of India. Agra, Uttar Pradesh, India, 2017. Credit: @mai.rawr

When I got to India, I was mind-blown — I had a culture shock, not in a bad way though. Also, I endured a 17-hour long train ride, squeezing with the locals. That was definitely the most memorable experience on my solo trips so far.

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The 17-hour train ride in India. Credit: @mai.rawr

My advice for anyone who wants to visit India is, you’ll get the same culture shock, but that’s very likely what you’ve anticipated anyway, so don’t bother about the negative things that people are saying. Just go for it.

6) When you travel overseas, how do people usually react when they realise you cannot hear?

Indian boy on bicycle @mai.rawr - Singaporean Deaf Traveller
Jaipur, India, 2017. Credit: @mai.rawr

I’ve met different people while travelling, but people are generally nice. Some may look shocked, and there are others who simply ignore me when I approach them with a paper. But I’ve also met very kind people who were really patient and willing to communicate with me. Some were even impressed to see that a Deaf person can travel on her own!

That’s when I felt that even as Deaf people, we can also be an inspiration to others, by stepping out of our comfort zone and pursuing what we like.

7) As a Deaf traveller, what’s one misconception you’d like to clear?

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Rishikesh, India, 2017. Credit: @mai.rawr
Sometimes, people frown on me traveling solo because of my deafness, but in fact, Deaf people like me have no issues travelling alone. My deafness has never disabled me from chasing my dream. With what I have shared, I hope to prove that Deaf people are just as capable of travelling independently.

8) Do you prefer travelling to cities or go on nature retreats?

Puddle reflection by @mai.rawr - Singaporean Deaf Traveller
Street photography, 2014. Credit: @mai.rawr

I do street photography when I visit cities, observing the busy crowd and cityscapes. However, I see myself as an introvert, and the city life drains me mentally at times.

Sunrise at Mt. Rinjani by @mai.rawr - Singaporean Deaf Traveller Interview
Mt. Rinjani, Indonesia. Credit: @mai.rawr

Elements of nature are simple and peaceful, and I’m able to find truth and joy in nature, and also improve my mental health. So between the two, I would choose nature.

9) What are your future travelling plans? Any dream destinations?

@mai.rawr Rinjani trek - Deaf solo traveller
Credit: @mai.rawr

So far I’ve only travelled within Southeast Asia, and I hope to go further this year. Perhaps to the Middle East, Africa, Mongolia, or China. There’s really no one specific country that I really want to go to. You can say that my dream is to travel to as many countries as I can.

10) Is there anything you’d like to tell other Deaf individuals, or even, the hearing community?

Street Vietnam by @mai.rawr - Singaporean Deaf Traveller
Street photography in Vietnam, 2013. Credit: @mai.rawr

I want to tell everyone that communication barriers are actually excuses you give yourself to not travel out of your comfort zone. As Deaf people, we can travel on our own. So it doesn’t matter if you face difficulties communicating overseas, as long as you have access to technology, you can do the same as well. I hope that you will travel more, open up your mind and improve your health.

Group photo with Mairah and Jian Xiong - Singaporean Deaf Traveller Interview
(From left to right: TTI’s Jerome, Sherry, and Edelyn with Mairah and Zhi Xiong)

Mairah is a really inspirational young woman who not only defies what society thinks of the Deaf but goes beyond that to set an example for everyone else. If deafness hasn’t stopped her from chasing her dreams and stepping out of her comfort zone, what’s stopping you and me?

All images credited to @mai.rawr, and do follow her for more inspiring travel updates. 


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She's selectively sporty and spends most of her energies on digestion. Best known among her colleagues as the one who ruptured her ACL after falling from a Segway. Polyglot in English, Mandarin, Cantonese, and Singlish.

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